Older children usually hesitate to talk at first and so you need to be very sensitive while dealing with their emotional situations. Try to make them realize that you are really concerned about what he or she is going through. It is better if you can send an email or text message saying if they are in need of any help. The child may like this way of communication and may open up.
Ask your child
Sometimes your child may have good ideas solving issues and so it is better to ask him or her whether any help is required.
Talk to other parents
Sometimes talking to other parents may help too. Talk to them about the ways they are implementing in dealing with the situations and whether the efforts are showing positive result. Apply the same and see if your child comes out of the situations.
It is to note at last the children are quick enough to spot when the parents disagree even slightly to their decision. So don’t show widely you disagree. Handle their emotion carefully and with positive way. A big NO can make the condition worse.
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